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Engaging and groundbreaking Splitopia challenges outdated negative assumptions about divorce with sharp wit searing honesty rigorous research and intimate interviews and offers guidance for healthier happier splitsWhen Wendy Paris announced that she and her husband were separating friends forecast a tsunami of devastation for both of them and their child But as Paris would discover divorce has improved dramatically. I read this book after finding a lot of comfort and guidance in her essay along the same lines published in the NYTimes A lot of the book deals with divorces involving children and family court but not all of it For me a childless person some of those chapters were irrelevant to my life but still societally and legally interesting Other chapters in the book were extremely helpful and thought provoking for anyone seeking to be better in their romantic post romantic and family relationships

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Divorced couples international experts and the latest research; and follows her own divorced parents’ possible reunion Splitopia calls for a flexible view of how we wed and how we part and offers support for creating loving families whatever the legal relationship status Divorce is no one’s first choice but as with other difficult unwanted experiences it can lead to growth deeper connections and a fulfilled lif. I was very happy to read an advance copy of this book Very relatable and uplifting with Wendy s own story interspersed with expert analysis It has a lot of good information about relationships whether divorced or married I plan to send a copy to a friend facing a divorcePractical advice on moving and resetting up a home and interesting anecdotes from many perspectives

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In recent decades due to changes in laws and family structures advances in psychology and child development and a new understanding of the importance of the father Yet disapprobation and fear persist In this incisive book Paris cuts through the moralizing and myopia and explores the new cultural phenomenon of the “good” divorce Splitopia chronicles Paris’s own divorce in real time; shares insights from happily. Author Wendy Paris found herself in a marriage which felt unfulfilling However she still respected her husband and wanted to keep him in her life and importantly in her eight year old son s life as well She wondered if there was such thing as a happy divorce Through speaking with peers psychologists and her own experiences on this topic Paris crafted this book as both a therapeutical guide for those who have experienced a divorce either in their own or a loved one s life What was previously perceived in history as a failure in a relationship and in vintage years a failure in life is now becoming a normal occurrence This book is a game changer for all of the people who ever felt stuck in a marriage but had their family in mind or didn t want to completely cut ties with their spouses Paris has stated that overall summation of her philosophy is to not take your spouse s personality personally She encourages divorced families to take joint vacations and to still be involved in each other s lives This method somewhat follows the 1950 s style marriage counselor advice of working through the problem together to keep the marriage intact except with Paris spin the marriage staying a solid relationship is not the primary objective as it was then It is a book that is in sync with today s modern relationships thus making it the perfect model for the modern divorce


10 thoughts on “Splitopia

  1. says:

    For a divorced single mom of 3 I thought this book was a good read It addressed some concepts that are relatively new such as mediation however it did not address the fact that many court judges and those handling civil lawfamily law are unskilled with high case loads and treat each case as a number without the emotional euivalent

  2. says:

    Author Profile Wendy Paris Splitopia When there’s a 5050 chance of getting divorced once in your lifetime nothing makes sense than to be prepared in case of a such a rude awakening In fact 40% of kids are born into non married families Instead of looking at divorce as a tragedy Wendy Paris wrote a guidebook of how to have a good d

  3. says:

    I read this book after finding a lot of comfort and guidance in her essay along the same lines published in the NYTimes A lot of the book deals with divorces involving children and family court but not all of it For me a childless person some of those chapters were irrelevant to my life but still societally and legally interesting Other chapters in the book were extremely helpful and thought provoking for anyone seeking to be b

  4. says:

    Sometimes Marriage isn't ForeverInformative read for anyone considering divorce separated or newly divorced

  5. says:

    Excellent advice

  6. says:

    Author Wendy Paris found herself in a marriage which felt unfulfilling However she still respected her husband and wanted to keep him in her life and importantly in her eight year old son’s life as well She wondered if there was such thing as a happy divorce Through speaking with peers psychologists and her own experien

  7. says:

    Wendy Paris and her husband split and made a point to keep their separation and divorce amicable She chronicles this process and includes different ways to help adapt communicating with each other adapting to single life managing loneliness perspective and to make the process go smoothlyBecause we live in a culture where we are taught that divorce is one of the greatest evils and must always be contentious and riddled

  8. says:

    A great help in gaining a updated perspectiveThis book really helped me gain a modern and confident perspective on separation and divorce I enjoyed that it was informative yet read like a novel I gave it 4 stars instead of 5 because I don't think everyone would glean what I did from it My husband and perhaps many men would not lik

  9. says:

    I was very happy to read an advance copy of this book Very relatable and uplifting with Wendy's own story interspersed with expert analysis It has a lot of good information about relationships whether divorced or married I plan to send a copy

  10. says:

    I'm calling this a must read for anyone early in separation or divorce Tons of good information and anecdotes on how to spl

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